What you have here is a race condition. You’re better off just catching the ObjectDisposed exception and be done with it. In fact, I think in this case it is the only working solution.
try
{
if (mImageListView.InvokeRequired)
mImageListView.Invoke(new YourDelegate(thisMethod));
else
mImageListView.RefreshInternal();
}
catch (ObjectDisposedException ex)
{
// Do something clever
}