https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/archive/blogs/jaimer/getting-system-dpi-in-wpf-app seems to work
PresentationSource source = PresentationSource.FromVisual(this);
double dpiX, dpiY;
if (source != null) {
dpiX = 96.0 * source.CompositionTarget.TransformToDevice.M11;
dpiY = 96.0 * source.CompositionTarget.TransformToDevice.M22;
}