Sorry i can’t reply as a comment, but i’m guessing you want to change the actionbar overflow menu icon. If so you can do it in styles.xml.
<!-- Application theme. -->
<style name="AppTheme" parent="AppBaseTheme">
<!-- All customizations that are NOT specific to a particular API-level can go here. -->
<item name="android:actionOverflowButtonStyle">@style/MyActionButtonOverflow</item>
</style>
<!-- Style to replace actionbar overflow icon. set item 'android:actionOverflowButtonStyle' in AppTheme -->
<style name="MyActionButtonOverflow" parent="android:style/Widget.Holo.Light.ActionButton.Overflow">
<item name="android:src">@drawable/ic_launcher</item>
</style>
Original post: How to change option menu icon in the action bar?