You won’t see the encrypted shared-key, it’s not exchanged. You can see the encrypted pre-master secret when using RSA authenticated key exchange. (Note that using Ephemeral Diffie-Hellman isn’t the only reason for not seeing a server key exchange message: it could also use a DH_DSS or DH_RSA cipher suite, but this is unusual as far as I know).
If you follow the instructions about decrypting SSL with Wireshark, use the “SSL debug file” option to store the logs into a file. (Note that the user interface has changed slightly in newer versions of Wireshark, in the way you configure the private key.)
The log files will contain the pre-master secret and the shared keys.
(By the way, you need the server’s private key to do this, of course.)
Using the sample data provided on the Wireshark page, you get:
pre master encrypted[128]:
65 51 2d a6 d4 a7 38 df ac 79 1f 0b d9 b2 61 7d
73 88 32 d9 f2 62 3a 8b 11 04 75 ca 42 ff 4e d9
cc b9 fa 86 f3 16 2f 09 73 51 66 aa 29 cd 80 61
0f e8 13 ce 5b 8e 0a 23 f8 91 5e 5f 54 70 80 8e
7b 28 ef b6 69 b2 59 85 74 98 e2 7e d8 cc 76 80
e1 b6 45 4d c7 cd 84 ce b4 52 79 74 cd e6 d7 d1
9c ad ef 63 6c 0f f7 05 e4 4d 1a d3 cb 9c d2 51
b5 61 cb ff 7c ee c7 bc 5e 15 a3 f2 52 0f bb 32
pre master secret[48]:
03 00 ff 84 56 6d a0 fb cc fd c6 c8 20 d5 f0 65
18 87 b0 44 45 9c e3 92 f0 4d 32 cd 41 85 10 24
cb 7a b3 01 36 3d 93 27 12 a4 7e 00 29 96 59 d8
master secret[48]:
1e db 35 95 b8 18 b3 52 58 f3 07 3f e6 af 8a a6
ab c3 a4 ed 66 3a 46 86 b6 e5 49 2a 7c f7 8c c2
ac 22 bb 13 15 0f d8 62 a2 39 23 7b c2 ff 28 fb
key expansion[136]:
11 60 e4 e1 74 e9 a1 cf 67 f9 b7 bc ef bc a7 c7
b3 f7 33 aa b2 42 d0 1c a6 4e fb e9 9b 13 dd 29
63 aa 17 1f 47 71 95 71 08 e0 4b 8e e1 da 7b 4a
5a f3 c2 32 bd e0 a5 82 6d 14 44 3a d6 cb 2d c0
7d 57 be a8 37 de 5d d9 a1 07 fd 1b 22 71 b9 4b
7a 1e 0f 70 37 14 97 0a f0 db 98 3b 7b 74 e3 2d
51 66 2e 31 68 90 ac 6f e6 53 3c c9 5e 48 0c 05
bc 9f 92 e7 f9 91 98 f5 95 1c c4 bf d9 cb 26 ef
35 70 5e ad 21 22 3e f6
Client MAC key[20]:
11 60 e4 e1 74 e9 a1 cf 67 f9 b7 bc ef bc a7 c7
b3 f7 33 aa
Server MAC key[20]:
b2 42 d0 1c a6 4e fb e9 9b 13 dd 29 63 aa 17 1f
47 71 95 71
Client Write key[32]:
08 e0 4b 8e e1 da 7b 4a 5a f3 c2 32 bd e0 a5 82
6d 14 44 3a d6 cb 2d c0 7d 57 be a8 37 de 5d d9
Server Write key[32]:
a1 07 fd 1b 22 71 b9 4b 7a 1e 0f 70 37 14 97 0a
f0 db 98 3b 7b 74 e3 2d 51 66 2e 31 68 90 ac 6f
Client Write IV[16]:
e6 53 3c c9 5e 48 0c 05 bc 9f 92 e7 f9 91 98 f5
Server Write IV[16]:
95 1c c4 bf d9 cb 26 ef 35 70 5e ad 21 22 3e f6