Add poster="placeholder.png"
to the video tag.
<video width="470" height="255" poster="placeholder.png" controls>
<source src="https://stackoverflow.com/questions/20075875/video.mp4" type="video/mp4">
<source src="video.ogg" type="video/ogg">
<source src="video.webm" type="video/webm">
<object data="https://stackoverflow.com/questions/20075875/video.mp4" width="470" height="255">
<embed src="video.swf" width="470" height="255">
</object>
</video>
Does that work?