Well, if you want to use pipes in the Process you exec, then you need to start a shell like bash, and give ps and grep on the command line to that shell:
bash -c "echo $PATH"
Try this to understand what I mean, then use this:
bash -c "ps axu | grep PATTERN"
to understand how you need to set up your java.runtime.Process.
I did not try it but I assume this:
Process p = Runtime.getRuntime().exec(new String[] { "bash", "-c", "ps axu | grep PATTERN" });
Hope that helps ;D