If you’re using SQL Server 2005 or newer, you can use the ranking functions and a CTE to achieve this:
;WITH HairColors AS
(SELECT id, name, hair, score,
ROW_NUMBER() OVER(PARTITION BY hair ORDER BY score DESC) as 'RowNum'
)
SELECT id, name, hair, score
FROM HairColors
WHERE RowNum <= 3
This CTE will “partition” your data by the value of the hair
column, and each partition is then order by score (descending) and gets a row number; the highest score for each partition is 1, then 2 etc.
So if you want to the TOP 3 of each group, select only those rows from the CTE that have a RowNum
of 3 or less (1, 2, 3) –> there you go!