What Alex says is the way to go. But I think its a little confusing to understand what he is saying.
Assuming you have your project open in Visual Studio, open another Visual Studio instance and select Debug->Attach To Process. In the dialog which opens select
XDesProc.exe
(which is the XAML UI Designer) for VS2012 and newer ordevenv.exe
for older VS versions.
Then do “Reload Designer” for the user control and see the output in the second VS instance to check what exactly is the error.