Regardless of the database you are using, the concept of what you are trying to achieve is called “Pivot Table”.
Here’s an example for mysql:
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/MySQL/Pivot_table
Some databases have builtin features for that, see the links below.
SQLServer:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/de-de/library/ms177410.aspx
Oracle:
http://www.dba-oracle.com/t_pivot_examples.htm
You can always create a pivot by hand. Just select all the aggregations in a result set and then select from that result set. Note, in your case, you can put all the names into one column using concat (i think that’s group_concat in mysql), since you cannot know how many names are related to a a rel_id.
pseudo-select for your case (i don’t know mysql):
select rel_id, group_concat(name) from item group by rel_id