jquery get height of iframe content when loaded

ok I finally found a good solution:

$('iframe').load(function() {
    this.style.height =
    this.contentWindow.document.body.offsetHeight + 'px';
});

Because some browsers (older Safari and Opera) report onload completed before CSS renders you need to set a micro Timeout and blank out and reassign the iframe’s src.

$('iframe').load(function() {
    setTimeout(iResize, 50);
    // Safari and Opera need a kick-start.
    var iSource = document.getElementById('your-iframe-id').src;
    document.getElementById('your-iframe-id').src="";
    document.getElementById('your-iframe-id').src = iSource;
});
function iResize() {
    document.getElementById('your-iframe-id').style.height = 
    document.getElementById('your-iframe-id').contentWindow.document.body.offsetHeight + 'px';
}