Java’s SimpleDateFormat doesn’t support an ordinal suffix, but the ordinal suffix is just eye candy – it is redundant and can easily be removed to allow a straightforward parse:
Date date = new SimpleDateFormat("MMM dd yyyy hh:mma")
.parse(str.replaceAll("(?<=\\d)(st|nd|rd|th)", ""));
The replace regex is so simple because those sequences won’t appear anywhere else in a valid date.
To handle any language that appends any length of ordinal indicator characters from any language as a suffix:
Date date = new SimpleDateFormat("MMM dd yyyy hh:mma")
.parse(str.replaceAll("(?<=\\d)(?=\\D* \\d+ )\\p{L}+", ""));
Some languages, eg Mandarin, prepend their ordinal indicator, but that could be handled too using an alternation – left as an exercise for the reader 🙂