Impossible? Hold my beer.
Make the select element aware of the current option. CSS can handle the rest. For this, all we need is a value assignment in the onchange event. With a little more effort you can also initialize the <select>
tag by its original value; not included below but it’s super easy, just give it a “data-chosen” property when composing the markup.
<select onchange=" this.dataset.chosen = this.value; ">
...
...
</select>
And now you can easily target & style it:
select[data-chosen='opt3'] {
border: 2px solid red;
}
See on CodePen.
Side note: “chosen” is no magic word, just a descriptive name – it could be “SantaClaus”. It would also look better that way.