No, you can’t do that, there’s no such thing as a polymorphic has_and_belongs_to_many association.
What you can do is create a middle model. It would probably be something like this:
class Subscription < ActiveRecord::Base
belongs_to :attendee, :polymorphic => true
belongs_to :event
end
class Event < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :subscriptions
end
class User < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :subscriptions, :as => :attendee
has_many :events, :through => :subscriptions
end
class Contact < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :subscriptions, :as => :attendee
has_many :events, :through => :subscriptions
end
This way the Subscription model behaves like the link table in a N:N relationship but allows you to have the polymorphic behavior to the Event.