I have this rough example that you might want to get some idea…
html
<div id="file">Chose file</div>
<input type="file" name="file" />
CSS
#file {
display:none;
}
jQuery
var wrapper = $('<div/>').css({height:0,width:0,'overflow':'hidden'});
var fileInput = $(':file').wrap(wrapper);
fileInput.change(function(){
$this = $(this);
$('#file').text($this.val());
})
$('#file').click(function(){
fileInput.click();
}).show();
demo