Add an IsSelected
property to your child ViewModel (OrderViewModel
in your case):
public bool IsSelected { get; set; }
Bind the selected property on the container to this (for ListBox in this case):
<ListBox.ItemContainerStyle>
<Style TargetType="{x:Type ListBoxItem}">
<Setter Property="IsSelected" Value="{Binding Mode=TwoWay, Path=IsSelected}"/>
</Style>
</ListBox.ItemContainerStyle>
IsSelected
is updated to match the corresponding field on the container.
You can get the selected children in the view model by doing the following:
public IEnumerable<OrderViewModel> SelectedOrders
{
get { return Orders.Where(o => o.IsSelected); }
}